The Seven Blocks

The bad first map

Most courses open with orientation and save the real thing for the end. That is the atomistic model wearing a project costume, and it is also why people quit in week two. So the whole task comes first, badly.

Watch

Watch Avatar: The Last Airbender, Book 2, Chapter 19, "The Guru" (2006). If you cannot, the summary below is enough to proceed, but the episode is 22 minutes and the visual of the creek does work that prose does not.

The Avatar, Aang, wants to control a state of overwhelming power that currently only triggers when he is in extreme distress. A guru named Pathik tells him that to master it he must first open seven chakras — pools of energy running up the body, each blocked by a specific emotion. Pathik demonstrates with a creek clogged by algae: remove the clogs and the water flows. He warns that the process cannot be halted once begun. Aang opens six. The seventh requires releasing his attachment to Katara. He sees a vision of her in danger, refuses, and leaves — locking himself out of the power entirely. Sourced fact S22

The seven, as the show gives them

Sourced fact S22 for the pairings themselves. Whether any of this corresponds to Indian tradition is Unit 2's problem, and the answer will surprise you.

Map — the actual work

Forty-five minutes, one pass, no research. For each of the seven, write the most specific recurring situation you can name in which that emotion seems to be costing you something. Not "I feel shame sometimes." A situation with a room in it.

Here is a filled-in example for one pool — a full worked example, because you have no basis yet for doing this cold.

That last line is the most valuable one in the example. Write it every time.

Check

Where the map actually came from

You would reasonably assume the show is drawing on something ancient. The lineage is stranger and much shorter than that, and knowing it changes what you are allowed to do with the map.

What the Indian sources actually say

Chakras originate in Indian tantric traditions, as focal points in a subtle body, activated through demanding meditative and ritual practice. Sourced fact S7 Three things about the source material tend to surprise people:

• The number is not seven. Systems in the Indian material range from as few as four chakras to as many as forty-nine. Sourced fact S7 Seven is one option among many, and it is the one the West standardised on.
• There is no rainbow. The chakras carry colours in the source texts, but not the spectrum order. Sourced fact S7
• "Balancing" is not a thing. The idea of balanced chakras is never mentioned in the scriptures. The chakras are to be pierced, dissolved and transcended, in pursuit of liberation — not tuned into an emotionally well-adjusted lifestyle. Sourced fact S7

Hold that third point. The therapeutic use of the chakra map — the use this entire course is about — is not a variation on the traditional use. It is close to its opposite. Inference

The actual lineage

The historian of this transmission is Kurt Leland, whose Rainbow Body traces how the Western version assembled itself. Sourced fact S7 The components arrived separately, over about a century:

Sourced fact S7 for the whole table.

The single-word list of qualities most people know — survival, sexuality, power, love, communication, insight, cosmic consciousness — emerged at the Esalen Institute in Big Sur out of a fusion of two Indian teachers' work, and reached print in 1977. Sourced fact S7

Compare that list to Pathik's: survival, pleasure, willpower, love, truth, insight, cosmic energy. The 2006 cartoon is not transmitting ancient tantra. It is transmitting the 1977 Esalen synthesis, most likely by way of Judith. Inference

That inference is mine, not Leland's — he is not writing about the show. But the correspondence is close enough, and the 1977 list specific enough, that the alternative is coincidence.

Trace

Forty minutes. Pick any chakra chart you can find — a yoga studio's wall, a wellness brand's product page, a search result. Identify, for each element on it, roughly when that element entered the Western system using the table above. Then find one claim on the chart that is not accounted for anywhere in the lineage, and write down where you think it came from.

This is the course's first real provenance exercise and the skill transfers well past chakras.

Write the provenance note

Add a paragraph to the top of your map. It should state what the seven-pool frame is, when it dates from, what you are using it for, and what you are not claiming. Yours, in your words — but it should survive a reader who knows the history.

Retrieval

Three things called "holding it in"

The guru's claim is that a blocked pool stops the flow and the cost is ongoing. That is close to something real, and the real version is more useful than the metaphor because it makes a distinction the metaphor cannot.

The standard finding

James Gross's process model separates strategies by when they act in the unfolding of an emotion. Reappraisal acts early: you change how the situation is construed, so less emotion is generated. Suppression acts late: the emotion has already happened and you inhibit the outward signs of it. Sourced fact S1

The consequences differ sharply:

Sourced fact S1 The memory finding comes from three separate studies: suppression during film viewing produced worse recall of the film's details; in a slide-viewing study only suppression, not reappraisal, hurt memory; and habitual suppressors showed poorer memory on both self-report and objective measures. Sourced fact S2

That last row is the one that should stop you. It is not only that suppression costs you. It raises physiological responding in the person you are talking to, who did not choose it and cannot see you doing it. Sourced fact S1

Read that table against a hard conversation you have had. The version of you who stayed composed and could not afterwards remember what the other person actually said was not failing to pay attention. That is the documented signature of the strategy you used.

Now the refutation, which is where the threshold actually is

The skill of reading this literature is looking for the paper that complicates the clean finding. Here it is.

A meta-analysis of 306 experimental comparisons found only modest overall differences between types of strategy. Attentional strategies like distraction produced no overall effect; response modulation such as suppression had a small effect; cognitive change such as reappraisal had small-to-moderate effects. The robust results were comparisons within a strategy — and two of them cut directly against the received view. Sourced fact S3 Contested

• Against "suppression is nearly always maladaptive": suppressing the expression of emotion generally proved effective. Suppressing the experience of the emotion, and suppressing thoughts of what caused it, generally did not. Sourced fact S3
• Against "reappraisal is nearly always adaptive": reappraising the emotional response was less effective than reappraising the stimulus, or taking a different perspective on it. Sourced fact S3

The threshold

"Holding it in" is at least three different operations, and they do not have the same price. Holding your face is comparatively cheap and often works. Holding the feeling does not work — the feeling stays and you pay interest. Holding the thought does not work either, and tends to make the thought louder.

Almost everyone, including almost everyone writing about this, collapses the three into one thing and then argues about whether it is good or bad. The argument is unresolvable because the question is malformed.

So the guru's advice — clear the block, let it flow — is right about the second and third and wrong about the first. You do not owe every room your face. Inference

Two more complications you need before you can use this

Context decides. The flexibility literature argues the question is not which strategy is best but whether you can match strategy to situation. Sourced fact S4 Reappraisal appears more adaptive under uncontrollable stress — where the emotion is the only thing available to change — and less so when the situation itself can be changed, where acting on the problem beats reframing your feelings about it. Sourced fact S5 Single study

The social costs of suppression are not universal. Whether suppressing emotion carries interpersonal cost is moderated by cultural context. Sourced fact S6 Most of the base literature is built on Western samples, and the size of these effects should be assumed smaller than published — in a large replication project, 36% of psychology findings replicated significantly in the same direction. Sourced fact S21

Worked example

Completion problem

Here is a second episode, partly filled in. Complete the empty rows. This is one fading step down from the worked example — you get the structure and the first classification, and you supply the rest.

Log — the real work of this unit

Over the next several days, catch three episodes and classify each one across the three channels. Written down, within a few hours. Three is enough; the point is not volume but catching yourself while the classification is still hard.

Delayed retrieval

Water and Fire: guilt is not small shame

Unit 3 was about the channel. This unit is about the content, and it is where the seven-pool structure starts earning its place instead of decorating the course.

The cleanest evidence for block-specificity

The show puts guilt on the second pool and shame on the third — different pools, different governed capacities. Most people treat shame and guilt as the same feeling at different volumes. They are not, and the difference is the best-established finding in this whole area.

The distinction, originating with Helen Block Lewis and developed by June Tangney and colleagues, is about the object of the negative evaluation. Guilt is about a behaviour: I did something bad. Shame is about the self: I am bad. Sourced fact S12, S13

Because guilt's object is a modifiable action, the self-concept stays intact, and the behavioural output is reparative — apology, correction, repair. Shame's object is the self, which cannot be edited on the spot, and the output is concealment and withdrawal. Sourced fact S12

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The threshold: these two feel nearly identical from the inside and produce opposite behaviour. So an intervention matched to one is actively wrong for the other. Telling a guilty person "don't be so hard on yourself" removes a signal that was pointing at a fixable action. Telling an ashamed person "so go fix it" hands them a task their current state makes impossible.

Now complicate it, because it is not as clean as that table

Two real problems with the standard account. Contested

• People cannot reliably tell them apart. Tangney's own group found that participants have trouble distinguishing shame from guilt — notably more trouble than distinguishing shame from embarrassment. If the two states are hard to separate introspectively, a self-report map has a hard floor on its accuracy. Sourced fact S14
• The "cultivate guilt, fight shame" conclusion is criticised as too simple. The boundary is blurrier than the self/behaviour split suggests, and the account rests on treating "moral" as roughly equal to "prosocial," which is not obviously right. Sourced fact S14 There is also work arguing shame can drive self-improvement rather than only withdrawal. Contested

This matters for how you write your map. The right entry is not "my Fire block is shame." It is a described situation plus a sorting attempt plus the reason you might be wrong. Inference

The sorting rule

One question, asked about a specific episode rather than in general:

If someone handed you a way to fix the thing right now, with no witnesses and no cost, would the feeling go away?

Mostly yes → guilt. The feeling was tracking a fixable action. Mostly no, or the relief feels hollow → shame. The feeling was tracking something about you that the fix does not touch. Inference

Completion problem

Revise the map

Rewrite your Water and Fire entries below with the sorting rule applied and a redirect that follows from the sort.

Delayed retrieval

Earth and Air: one of these is not a block

Earth: fear, and why avoidance is the engine

The base pool governs survival and is blocked by fear. Sourced fact S22 This is the pairing with the strongest correspondence to clinical practice, and the mechanism is not the fear itself.

The operative concept is experiential avoidance: the attempt to avoid or escape unwanted internal experiences — thoughts, feelings, sensations — and the situations that occasion them. It is proposed as a transdiagnostic mechanism, meaning it turns up across many different presentations rather than belonging to one. Sourced fact S24

The clinical shape of this is well known: avoiding the feared thing reduces fear right now and strengthens it over time, because the avoidance prevents any new learning about whether the feared outcome actually occurs. Exposure-based treatment works by removing the avoidance, not by arguing with the fear. Sourced fact S19 Inference on my compression of it.

Which makes the show unusually accurate here. Pathik does not tell Aang his fears are unfounded. He tells him to let them become clear, and let them go — which is much closer to exposure than to reassurance. Inference

Air: grief, and where the map is simply wrong

The heart pool governs love and is blocked by grief. Aang's grief is the loss of his entire people, and he is instructed to release it. Sourced fact S22

This is the pairing to argue with, and the argument is not a quibble.

Twentieth-century grief models did treat the work of mourning as severing the bond with the deceased, with continued attachment read as pathology. That framing was substantially revised. The continuing bonds literature holds that maintaining an ongoing, transformed relationship with the person who died is a normal and often adaptive part of bereavement rather than a failure to complete it. Sourced fact S23

So the instruction "let the grief flow out and release the attachment" encodes a model of mourning the field moved away from. Grief is not muck in the pipe. In most cases it is what love does when its object is gone, and the goal is not clearance. Inference

Notice what this does to the metaphor. Six pools can take a blockage-and-flow reading. This one cannot without saying something false. That is worth more to you than six clean fits — a map you have found the edge of is a map you can use, because you now know where to stop trusting it.

Independent problem

No worked example and no partial fill this time. The scaffolding is gone on purpose — if the exercises in this unit looked like Unit 3's, the fading never happened and by now the guidance would be getting in your way.

Delayed retrieval

Sound: naming changes the thing it names

The throat pool governs truth and is blocked by lies. Sourced fact S22 Read as being honest with other people, it is a platitude. Read as what happens when you put an internal state into words, it is the most mechanically interesting claim in the set.

Affect labeling

An fMRI study found that labelling the emotion in an affective image — as against other ways of encoding it — reduced the response of the amygdala and other limbic regions, while increasing activity in one region, the right ventrolateral prefrontal cortex. Sourced fact S15

The decade of work after it framed this as implicit emotion regulation: it produces regulatory effects even when it is not experienced as an attempt to regulate anything. Sourced fact S16 Two behavioural findings from that review make it concrete: people with spider phobia could physically approach a spider more closely after vocalising their emotions than after reappraisal, distraction, or exposure alone; and students who wrote about their anxiety immediately before a high-stakes maths exam performed better on it. Sourced fact S16

The threshold

Naming is an intervention, not an observation. There is no neutral act of noticing what you feel. The noticing changes it — usually downward, reliably enough to be a tool, and never invisibly.

Which means the whole exercise of this course is not a survey of your emotional landscape. Every entry you have written has already altered the thing it describes. That is not a flaw in the method. It is the method.

And it is why the guru's warning has a real referent under it. Once a block is named, the mind does not return to not having named it. Inference

The hazard, which is specific

Here is the distinction the research does not make for you, and the one this unit exists to install.

Inference on the table as a comparison; the labelling column is sourced S15, S16 and the rumination column sourced S20.

Rumination — repetitive focus on the causes and consequences of your distress — is implicated in the onset and maintenance of symptoms across depression, anxiety, and others. Sourced fact S20 There is evidence it fuels intrusive thoughts, which in turn drive dysregulated behaviour. Sourced fact S20 Single study

"I'm angry" and "why am I angry" look like the same activity performed at different depths. They are not. The first is bounded and lowers reactivity; the second is unbounded and can raise it. This course is built almost entirely out of the second one, which is why it needs a pacing rule that the show does not supply. Inference

Replacing "you cannot stop once you begin"

That instruction is the one thing in the episode you should actively refuse. Flooding is a risk, not a requirement, and a process you are forbidden to pause is a process with no brakes.

Write your own rule. It should specify at minimum: how long a single map session runs, what the signal is that you have moved from labelling into rumination, and what you do when you hit it. Mine would say something like: forty minutes, stop at the timer regardless; the signal is the third time the same sentence is rewritten; the response is to close the file and go do something with your hands. Yours will differ. Write it before you do another map session.

Practice

Over the next few days, sixty minutes total, spread out. Catch five emotional moments and label each in under five words, in under five seconds, then stop. No causes. No analysis. If you find yourself reaching for why, that is the boundary you are learning to feel.

Independent problem

Delayed retrieval

Light and Thought: the top of the creek

Light: insight, blocked by illusion

The sixth pool governs insight and is blocked by illusion. Sourced fact S22 The obvious reading is cognitive restructuring: identify the distorted belief, test it, replace it. That reading is fine as far as it goes, and it is not where the interesting content is.

The interesting content is that you have spent six units building an instrument out of self-report, and this pool is the one that asks whether the instrument works.

Recall Unit 4: people have difficulty distinguishing shame from guilt in their own experience. Sourced fact S14 Recall Unit 6: naming a state changes it. Sourced fact S15 Put those together and your map is an instrument with a known resolution limit that perturbs what it measures. Inference

That is not a reason to stop. Physics works fine with instruments like that. It is a reason for the map to carry error bars, which is what this pool contributes: for each entry, what would I expect to observe if this entry were wrong? An entry with no answer to that question is not a finding. It is a preference.

Thought: attachment, and Aang's refusal

The seventh pool requires letting go of earthly attachment. Aang refuses, because the attachment is a person he loves, and the refusal locks the pool. Sourced fact S22

This is where the map's inherited philosophy and contemporary therapy diverge hardest, and you should have a position on it.

The renunciation framing comes from the source tradition, where the chakras are pierced and transcended in pursuit of liberation. Sourced fact S7 There is a genuine and much-studied idea in that neighbourhood — that a fused, unexamined relationship to your own thoughts and feelings drives suffering, and loosening it helps. That is roughly the experiential-avoidance and defusion territory. Sourced fact S24

But it is not the same claim as "release your attachment to the people you love," and most contemporary therapy treats secure attachment as an outcome to build rather than an obstacle to clear. Inference Contested — traditions genuinely disagree here and I am not going to pretend otherwise.

Read as psychology rather than as soteriology, Aang makes the right call. The cost he pays is real, and the thing he refuses to give up is the thing worth having. That the show frames this as a failure is the clearest evidence that its map is carrying a metaphysics it never declares.

Independent problem

Retrieval

Where the map breaks

Seven units of building an instrument. This one is about its failure modes, and two of them are structural rather than incidental.

Failure one: the map assumes the pipe is fine

Every pool in the creek metaphor holds the same assumption — that the channel is intact and something has clogged it. Clear the muck, restore the flow. Remove the obstruction and the system returns to baseline.

For some people the channel itself is built differently, and then the metaphor quietly blames them for its own mismatch.

ADHD is the clearest case. Emotion dysregulation is prevalent in ADHD across the lifespan and is a major contributor to impairment — not an occasional complication. Sourced fact S17 A systematic review of adult ADHD goes further, arguing it should be treated as a core feature rather than a comorbidity, and that models built only on executive dysfunction are insufficient to explain the full range of impairment. Sourced fact S18

The mechanism matters here more than the prevalence. The dysregulation may arise from deficits in orienting toward, recognising, and allocating attention to emotional stimuli, implicating a striato-amygdalo-medial prefrontal network. Sourced fact S17

Read that against the method of this course. Every unit depends on detection: catch the moment, classify the channel, name the affect. If attention allocation to emotional stimuli is itself atypical, the impairment is in the step the map cannot see, because the map only begins after you have noticed something. Inference

What follows practically: the map is still usable, but it is a retrospective instrument rather than a real-time one, and it should be built from written records rather than recall. The failure to catch things in the moment is not a lack of diligence to be corrected by trying harder, and a course that implies otherwise is adding shame to a wiring difference — which, per Unit 4, blocks exactly the capacity you would need to act on it. Inference

Failure two: for some people, this course is a compulsion

This is the one to take most seriously, and it is not a caveat.

The cognitive model of OCD holds that a pathological obsession forms when a normal intrusive thought is misinterpreted as threatening, morally objectionable, or predictive of some future outcome — which provokes distress that is then regulated by compulsion. Sourced fact S19 Compulsions are not only external behaviours; they include internal mental acts that provide short-term relief. Sourced fact S19

And in OCD specifically, rumination is typically activated by obsessive thoughts, in the sense that the person tries to understand their causes and consequences. Sourced fact S20 One study found that the tendency to misinterpret unwanted intrusive thoughts as meaningful moderated rumination's effect on obsessive-compulsive symptoms. Sourced fact S20 Single study

Now describe this course in those terms. It instructs you to notice internal states, treat them as meaningful, work out what they are about, and resolve them thoroughly. For someone prone to treating intrusions as significant, that is a description of the mechanism, not the treatment. Inference

Exposure and response prevention runs the other direction: toward the thought and away from neutralising it. A well-executed map, done by the wrong person, is a well-executed mental compulsion — and it will feel like progress the entire time, because compulsions relieve distress in the short term. That is what makes them sticky. Sourced fact S19

Failure three: the map covers less than half of it

The claim that started this course was that the chakra scene explains well over half of what therapy does. Having gone through it, here is the honest assessment.

So: a strong map of the emotion-processing half, silent on the skills half, and actively misleading on pacing. "Over half" is generous. Inference As a claim made conversationally by a therapist to a client who watches the show, it is doing something different from what a textbook claim does — it is building a shared vocabulary fast, which is its own legitimate purpose and one this course has been trading on for eight units.

Compare

Open your Unit 1 map — the crude one, written before you knew anything. Read it beside your current one.

This is the only direct measurement the course offers. Answer specifically: which entries survived unchanged, which reversed, and which pool moved the most? Then the harder question — is the new map better, or just longer?

Final revision

Finish the artifact. Seven entries, each with a situation, a redirect that follows from the affect, an error bar, and a note where the pool does not fit. Plus the provenance note from Unit 2 at the top, the pacing rule from Unit 6, and a closing section listing the conditions under which you should not trust this document.

Final retrieval

Your map

One document, edited throughout. Everything saves as you type and syncs across your devices.

Sources

Each entry records how far it was actually verified. "Full" means the source itself was read. "Abstract" means only the abstract or publisher summary. "Secondary" means the claim was reached through another source that summarises it — which is amplification, and is flagged in the text wherever a claim rests on one.

1. Gross, J.J. (2002). Emotion regulation: affective, cognitive, and social consequences. Psychophysiology 39, 281–291. — Abstract + review summaries
2. Richards, J.M. & Gross, J.J. (2000). Emotion regulation and memory: the cognitive costs of keeping one's cool. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 79(3), 410–424. — Abstract
3. Webb, T.L., Miles, E. & Sheeran, P. (2012). Dealing with feeling: a meta-analysis of the effectiveness of strategies derived from the process model of emotion regulation. Psychological Bulletin 138(4), 775–808. — SECONDARY, via S4. Amplification risk; flagged in Unit 3. Read the original before relying on it.
4. Bonanno, G.A. & Burton, C.L. (2013). Regulatory flexibility: an individual differences perspective on coping and emotion regulation. Perspectives on Psychological Science 8(6), 591–612. — Partial full text
5. Troy, A.S. et al. (2013). A person-by-situation approach to emotion regulation: cognitive reappraisal can either help or hurt, depending on the context. Psychological Science 24(12). — Abstract + secondary
6. Butler, E.A., Lee, T.L. & Gross, J.J. (2007). Emotion regulation and culture: are the social consequences of emotion suppression culture-specific? Emotion 7(1), 30–48. — Citation only
7. Leland, K. (2016). Rainbow Body: A History of the Western Chakra System from Blavatsky to Brennan. Ibis Press. And Leland, K. (2017), "The Rainbow Body: How the Western Chakra System Came to Be," Quest 105.2, 25–29. — Article read in full; book not read. All Unit 2 history claims rest on the article.
8. Woodroffe, J. ["Arthur Avalon"] (1919). The Serpent Power. — Not read; cited via S7
9. Leadbeater, C.W. (1927). The Chakras. — Not read; cited via S7
10. Dychtwald, K. (1977). Bodymind. — Not read; cited via S7
11. Judith, A. Wheels of Life and Eastern Body, Western Mind. — Publisher and review summaries only
12. Tangney, J.P. & Dearing, R.L. (2002). Shame and Guilt. Guilford. Plus Tangney (1995), "Constructive and destructive aspects of shame and guilt." — Abstract + multiple independent secondary reviews
13. Lewis, H.B. (1971). Shame and Guilt in Neurosis. — Not read; the originating reference for the self/behaviour distinction
14. Critique of TOSCA-based shame research: "Intersubjectivity and interaction as crucial for understanding the moral role of shame." — Partial full text. The source for both the blurriness of the boundary and the finding that people struggle to distinguish shame from guilt.
15. Lieberman, M.D. et al. (2007). Putting feelings into words: affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity in response to affective stimuli. Psychological Science 18(5), 421–428. — Abstract + partial full text
16. Torre, J.B. & Lieberman, M.D. (2018). Putting feelings into words: affect labeling as implicit emotion regulation. Emotion Review 10(2), 116–124. — Abstract + secondary summaries. The spider and exam findings are secondary.
17. Shaw, P., Stringaris, A., Nigg, J. & Leibenluft, E. (2014). Emotion dysregulation in attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. American Journal of Psychiatry 171(3), 276–293. — Abstract (full manuscript open at PMC4282137)
18. Soler-Gutiérrez, A.M., Pérez-González, J.C. & Mayas, J. (2023). Evidence of emotion dysregulation as a core symptom of adult ADHD: a systematic review. PLoS ONE 18(1), e0280131. — Secondary summary
19. Rachman, S. (1997) and the cognitive model of OCD as summarised in contemporary reviews. — Secondary. The intrusive-thought-misinterpretation account and the point that compulsions include internal mental acts.
20. Rumination and OCD: Nolen-Hoeksema, Wisco & Lyubomirsky (2008) on rumination; and the 2024 reanalysis on moderators of rumination's effect on OC symptoms (International Journal of Cognitive Therapy). — Abstracts
21. Open Science Collaboration (2015). Estimating the reproducibility of psychological science. Science 349. — Widely reported headline figures
22. DiMartino, M.D. & Konietzko, B. (2006). Avatar: The Last Airbender, Book 2 Chapter 19, "The Guru." Nickelodeon. — Primary text; episode content verified against two independent episode references
23. Klass, D., Silverman, P.R. & Nickman, S.L., eds. (1996). Continuing Bonds: New Understandings of Grief. — Not read; the canonical reference for the revision of severing models
24. Hayes, S.C. et al. (1996). Experiential avoidance and behavioral disorders: a functional dimensional approach. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology 64(6). — Not read; canonical reference
25. Jordan, K. (2015). MOOC completion rates revisited: assessment, length and attrition. — Secondary, via this course's own pedagogy reference
26. Bjork, R.A. & Bjork, E.L. (2011). Making things hard on yourself, but in a good way. — Secondary, via this course's own pedagogy reference